Saturday, 6 January 2018

HEY DAD


Prayer to me has always been something different from what a lot of people think it should be.
Others know how to use the big words and the Christian terms that I like to call CHRISTIANESE. Some pick a special time in the day, a special place, special notepads, special sticky notes and sometimes special fragrance for their place of prayer. So they end up waiting for that particular time and place before they have their 'special prayer time'. Don't get me wrong, this is a very good practice to have because, there is a time and place for everything.

However, I am slightly different because prayer to me is a conversation with God every time and anytime, anywhere and everywhere. I speak to him and he responds in his own way.  It's a conversation which is as simple as ever because I speak from my heart to his ears.
I pray in the spirit when he takes over but other than that I just talk from my heart.

Thursday, 30 November 2017

STRIPPING MYSELF NAKED

I wrote a blog a while ago called DATING MY ABUSER, and was shocked at the number of women who sent emails talking about the abuse they had faced. My heart was so heavy as I realized how bad things have gotten and how silent we have been over the years. One woman’s email really touched my heart and that is why I decided to share another experience.
Stripping myself naked in front of the world is not an easy thing to do, but when my experience encourages, heals and informs others, then it is the right thing to do.

I remember one day in 2009, I had just signed a contract with a new management company and they sent their marketing manager to take pictures of me so that they could build a press kit and other materials for work.
The man I was dating at the time was in my house for a visit, and we were both in the living room when the marketing manager came in. As he entered we exchanged pleasantries and I introduced him to my boyfriend who gave him the most arrogant and disgusting look ever.  The marketing manager brought out his hand to shake him but my boyfriend walked away and didn't even acknowledge his presence.
I apologized to the guy who was really shocked as he was sure they had never met. He was so confused and had to ask me if he did something wrong.  I was highly embarrassed but had to quickly change the subject as usual.
I say as usual because it was becoming a trend with my boyfriend.
I knew how arrogant my boyfriend could be but I didn't think it would be that bad.

Thursday, 5 October 2017

STELLA, DUMB IT DOWN!

"Stella, you are still single because you have raised your bar too high, you have set high expectations. You cannot afford to be too intelligent or knowledgeable because men don't like it. At the dinner table, you made him feel like you knew more than he did as regards social justice. Even if he didn't say it, I am sure he felt that way because he didn't ask for another date. Why do you keep doing this to yourself? It is a man's world, so in order to get hooked quickly, you need to DUMB IT DOWN"

Friday, 11 August 2017

(WARNING 18+) WHY YOUR CHILD COULD BE WATCHING PORN! 18+ (GRAPHIC IMAGES)

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Hey lovelies, how have you all been?

I know you haven’t heard from me in a while and I apologize. I have been so busy working on different projects that I can’t wait to share with you, but before I do, I thought I should share something else I saw a few days ago instead.

So, my sisters and I have a group on WhatsApp, and a few days ago I received the shocker of my life when one of my sisters sent the image below to warn us (GRAPHIC IMAGE) 

Thursday, 20 April 2017

EXCUSE MY AFRICAN


Ooops!
I did it again.

So I forgot to tell you all that I was approached by TEAKISI.COM to write an article for them. You can actually check out my profile on the website.


The great news is that my first article has just been published and I am already receiving messages, questions and meeting requests because of it.
I wanted to share it with you, so that my dear supportive and loyal readers will not be left out.
 

It's called EXCUSE MY AFRICAN.
 

As an African girl who lives abroad, I have had a lot of experiences that made me realize that life is not what it seems. I actually thought that it would be easy for me to introduce myself as an African and it will be understood and accepted. Little did I know that to the foreigners, there is only one type of African and unfortunately, I am not that. 
 

Click on this link https://shar.es/1FmHCi to read the full article. 

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