Wednesday, 4 May 2016


Some people might be put off by this title because it sounds impossible and unrealistic. I totally understand how it may come across but when I say ‘dreaming’ I am not referring to what goes on in your mind when you sleep. Rather, I am talking about those things you WISH for. The things you DESIRE. The things that you (or other people) regard as WISHFUL THINKING.

Some people have said things like, "I have big dreams", or "I know what I want but it's all wishful thinking", or "I wish I could own this business but maybe in my next life" or "I desire this building so much but it's not possible". These are the kinds of statements I have learnt never to make ever again because they are words of pessimists and limited minds.

Many people have big dreams that were inspired by things around them, and in these dreams are huge opportunities, great ideas and wonderful innovations but it all starts and ends in their hearts because they call it DREAMS.
They talk about it, wish for it, dream of it but never do anything about it because it becomes a permanent resident in their heads. They don't write it down or even make an attempt to look into it because it doesn't appear as a possibility to them.

I have often said that "there is a big difference between GREAT SUCCESSFUL people and MEDIOCRE AVERAGE people"

The difference is that AVERAGE people dream and keep wishing and hoping that their dreams become reality without working on it, but SUCCESSFUL people dream and turn it into REALITY through VISION.

STOP limiting yourself by living inside your DREAM. That is not the REAL WORLD, it is the DREAM WORLD which you cannot control.

The DREAM is an idea of "what can be", so you need to come out of that place and start to live in the reality of "what should be", "what will be", "what it can become" and  then finally "what it has become".

You have to decide when the DREAM PHASE should stop and when the VISION PHASE should begin.

A man without a VISION cannot be successful
A man without a plan will starve
When you have a DREAM
Write it
Visualize it
Plan it
Invest in it
Work on it
Be confident in it
Pray about it
And you will be successful in it.


  1. This is so true stella. I wish you can be my mentor. Cos u are a source of inspiration to many. Xoxo love u maam

  2. Beautiful write up. Inspiring and sure motivating. Bless your heart Stella.

  3. Beautiful write up. Inspiring and sure motivating. Bless your heart Stella.

  4. Very nice piece SD, thank you. Sometimes what keeps dreams from being a reality too is that some people are afraid/ashamed of starting small. Do not let starting small deter you please. Go for it!!!

  5. Thank you so much for this SD! This is really helpful. God bless you for sharing.

  6. Thanks for this amazing article Stella. So many people spend a lot of time talking about the dream and stewing in the idea of the dream. They don't actually get up to DO SOMETHING! It's not enough to dream and talk. We should get up and GO and that's what I love about you. You don't just talk, you're proactive & you Get Things Done!

  7. Nice write up! inspiring! Some need a little courage just to rise up and take action, and not be overwhelmed with fear of it not working out, as opposed to lack of confidence that it is unachievable.

  8. Food for thought! Thank you for sharing SD. This was definitely for me. It's time to get up and DO IT!

  9. Great post Stella. Dreaming isn't that which we see when we shut our eyes, And it's super important we stay awake to make those visions come alive. You are a true visionary. I'm happy people can get encouragement from someone like you, who makes her DREAMS happen. Keep writing SD.

  10. God bless you ma'am. wise words.

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